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Every child yearns for their mother’s love but the love isn’t limited to just humans. Animals also yearn for the love of their mothers and when they don’t, the situation can be dire.

White King is a ten-day-old white lion cub whose mother rejected him after a traumatic birth. The white cub born on May 31st is the first white lion born in a Spanish zoo.

The mother is a white lioness brought over from Thailand four years ago and laboured for 14 to 15 days before giving birth. South China Morning Post reported that Malpartida, a 73-year-old zookeeper noticed that the mother wasn’t nursing her cub for the first two days.

On the third day, they pulled him out of the compound and found him suffering from hypothermia and hypoglycaemia. After that, fortunately, White King showed positive changes and even held his head up, trying to run!

To no one’s surprise, White King is also dubbed as the zoo’s teddy bear. Another good news is that his mother is having a full recovery, and is totally calm.

“She wanted to be free of the cub, she was ready to mate again.”

When the zoo re-opens, White King will be one of their main attractions but still under the care of the staffs. He’ll be reunited with his parents when he’s ready and hopefully, he won’t have to compete with his father for his mother’s attention.

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Being apart from our loved ones when they need us the most is one of the hardest things to feel. Imagine how this mother felt when her deceased son was buried and she could only watch from a phone screen.

According to a Twitter thread, Sazriman, also known as Man had taken a new job as a nurse for a man during the MCO as he didn’t want to stay at home when he could lend his expertise to patients needing home care. Man told us that he started his job on 6th April.

The patient was a 36-year-old man who was terminally ill, his family put in a request for someone to be around him, taking care of him till he draws his last breath. In addition to that, his request was to pass on at home.

Man then went to work and he got the night shift (7pm – 7am). He was quite nervous as he didn’t know what to expect of his patient. The old caretaker proceeded to tell Man what to do and completed the pass over. On the first night, Man felt like he really bonded with his patient. They talked and the patient told Man that he was determined to fight on so that he can see his mother who is in Boston, USA.

“My mum can’t come back because there are lockdowns everywhere. I’m scared that she’ll miss the day I pass on but I will not let it happen, because I’m a fighter.”

Before Man’s shift ended, the patient told him that he did a good job and he’s looking forward to seeing him again. When he came back that night, the patient was not really energetic but he still managed to talk. As the third day progresses into night, the patient’s condition took a turn and they had to call the ambulance so that the patient can be brought to a private hospital.

The hospital they were at had no ICU rooms and they called four to five other hospitals but they all came back with the same answer. There was one other hospital which had rooms but it would have cost them RM15,000. Speaking to the mother on the phone, RM15,000 was way out of their budget, so they had to go home.

The despaired mother kept calling Man to ask for updates as she couldn’t be there with her dying son. Most of the time, she would be crying on the phone. Later on, the patient became unconscious. A few of his friends, who only got to know of his condition at that time, came to visit him individually.

Man and the patient’s younger siblings have been taking turns to take care of the unconscious man and there were already signs that he was going to pass on. When he was near death, his mother could only look at her beloved son’s face from a cellphone screen, 15 ,000 kilometres away. The patient, although near death, kept on fighting but they could see that he was suffering. So his parents said,

“Go on my child, we have already accepted it. You don’t have to fight it anymore, we’ll meet in the afterlife.”

It was not known how much time had passed, but when the patient finally took his last breath, everyone, including his mother who was on video call burst into tears. Then they followed through with the funeral processions and as the deceased was laid to rest in the ground, his parents watched through the glass screen.

Man was paid for that day too, not as a nurse or caretaker but as the person who was there for them and the person who held the phones on video call during the whole ritual.

Man would like to tell everyone,

“For those of you at home with your family, spend time with them and appreciate them. You might not know if it will be the last day you might spend together.”

The mom reached out to WORLD OF BUZZ, sharing her heartbreaking story. She said,

“I would like to share this story with those who are not fluent or do not know Bahasa Malaysia. The mother is me and it’s so heart wrenching for a mother who was not able to fulfill her dying son’s last wish during the MCO as I am in Boston, US.”

This s truly a heartbreaking tale. Thoughts and prayers go out to the deceased family and may he rest in peace. With this Covid-19 pandemic going on, we should all just stay at home to lessen the risk of contracting the virus. Please, stay home.

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TAMPIN – A mother’s decision to leave her 10-month-old baby alone at home while she made a quick stop at the post office came back to haunt her, after the infant was killed in a fire.

Tampin deputy OCPD Deputy Supt Ahmad Pilus Zainal said the 31-year-old mother had put her baby to sleep in an electric cradle at their home in Kampung Bangkahulu and told a neighbour to keep an eye on her while she went to the Gemas post office.

“The mum left her baby at home around 10.30am and told a neighbour to keep watch in case the baby wakes up.

“However, the mother later received a call from the neighbour and was told that her house was ablaze,” he said, adding that a policeman on duty at the Gemas police station also received a call of the fire from a member of the public around 11.50am.

DSP Ahmad Pilus said the mother immediately rushed to their rented home and saw that the house was ablaze.

“Her baby had also died in the incident,” he said adding that her husband was on duty at the Syed Sirajuddin Army camp when the fire broke out.

He said the Fire and Rescue Department was investigating the cause of the blaze.

“For now, we have classified the baby’s death as Sudden Death.

“We are still probing if the fire was an act of arson or caused by other factors,” he added.

The victim’s remains have been sent to the Tampin Hospital for a post-mortem.

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While suicide may never be the answer to any of life’s hardships, many people who are desperate and feel hopeless in their own situations tend to look at it as being the only way out of the position that they find themselves in, or from their mental troubles. As such, it is predicted that by 2020, one person will die from suicide every 20 seconds.

One such unfortunate soul to have met an untimely end by suicide was reportedly suffering from marital issues and financial debt before taking her life recently, as reported by China Press.

At an unspecified hotel in Genting on Saturday (12th October 2019), a 27-year-old Burmese woman was said to have jumped to her death from the 19th floor after facing financial difficulties and problems in her marriage.

Prior to committing suicide, the woman had sent messages to her friends on WeChat asking them to take good care of her daughter after she passes away. Screenshots of her WeChat conversation with a friend before she jumped have been circulating social media since the suicide was discovered.

“I only have RM1,000 left. I will be returning to Myanmar soon, once my daughter’s passport is ready. I’m afraid we will no longer be able to meet each other again.”

According to the WeChat correspondence, the woman said that she had lost up to RM200,000 due to a gambling problem, and only had RM1,000 left. She also expressed her disappointment in her marriage and her husband after they faced marital difficulties. 

“Marrying him was one of my biggest disappointments in life. I can see clearly now. I have let him go.”

Further correspondence sent on WeChat also mentioned that the woman had initially intended to return to Myanmar with her daughter after her passport had been processed, but wound up entrusting the care of the child to her friend afterwards. 

The deceased also asked her friend to send her a video of her daughter before she committed suicide, and tried to do so by taking a handful of pills. However, she later changed her mind and went up to the 19th floor of her hotel to jump to her death.

“I want to see her one last time. I’m afraid I’ll never get to see her again.”

The case is currently still under investigation by the local authorities.

Again, we have to remind all our readers that if you are facing any problems in your life, please reach out to speak to a friend or seek professional help. Suicide is never the answer. We extend our deepest condolences to the family of the deceased.-

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Perhaps one of the scariest things to encounter on a flight is a crying baby.

So much so that certain airlines are implementing child-free zones and flights, which would have most certainly helped to prevent the following ‘in-flight entertainment’.

A young couple and a mother started squabbling over the ruckus the latter’s child was making on a flight from Kuala Lumpur to Wuhan on Monday (Oct 7).

A person who filmed it explains that the baby had been crying ever since the lights in the plane were switched off.

Unable to tolerate the kid’s incessant noise any longer, a young couple in front turned around to ask whether the mother could do something about it.

“If you think you’re so good, don’t ever have children for the rest of your life,” the angry mother burst out yelling.

She continued to berate the pair non-stop, repeatedly announcing out loud that the two had no morals and cursing them never to have kids.

The mother explains herself in a later part of the video, saying that she was already doing her best in pacifying her child, therefore hearing the young couple’s words incensed her.

Netizens, however, were unimpressed with the mother’s explanation. Many believed that her tone was too harsh and she could have easily settled the situation by apologising, as her child was indeed disturbing other passengers.

“To be honest, she really was quite helpless. You can control a kid but not a baby. But the mother was a little rude.”
“People not having kids and your child disturbing people are two completely different matters. You say taking care of a child is difficult, but wasn’t it your choice to have one? Did these passengers force you to? You’ve disturbed others yet you’re so oblivious, even cursing others not to have kids.”
“Your child indeed disturbed others. You could have just apologised instead of saying such things.” PHOTOS: Screengrab/Weibo

Some were more empathetic towards the mother’s predicament, believing that certain things could only be understood when you’re a parent.

“Those who have been mothers would understand how helpless this mother was. Sometimes you just can’t placate the kids.”
“It is really difficult for a mother to bring her children out alone.”
“These young people are too much. They seem to think she didn’t care her child was cying. If a baby’s crying could be stopped immediately, why would being a parent be so tough? They’re young and don’t know anything, they can only cry.” PHOTOS: Screengrab/Weibo

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A mother and her young son were killed on a National Day ballooning trip over eastern China, The Beijing News reported on Thursday (Oct 3).

The incident took place in the Majiagou eco-tourism village near the city of Yantai in Shandong province on Tuesday. The report said a tether holding the balloon to the ground broke, and as the balloon rose it ruptured, sending the unnamed 31-year-old woman and the three-year-old boy – who were harnessed side-by-side – to their deaths.

They were the only passengers. Police said five people had been held in connection with the incident.

It is unclear from mobile phone footage published by newspaper how far the balloon and its passengers fell.

The report quoted emergency response authorities as saying the ride was illegal, and that they were investigating. All tourist activities in the Majiagou scenic area were temporarily suspended.

Tickets for the site over the week-long holiday cost 70 yuan (S$13.50) each and included a balloon ride, the attraction’s website said. The report said park staff promised refunds on all tickets.

“That balloon was not ours, but it happened on our land,” a member of Majiagou scenic area staff told The Beijing News.

“Police have determined that this is a criminal case. This is illegal, this balloon activity is unauthorised,” a member of the area’s management team was quoted as saying.

The Chinese government was urged to tighten restrictions on balloons after a crash in southern Guangxi autonomous region in 2009 claimed the lives of four Dutch tourists.

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She was apparently told that she might never become her mother because of her rare physical condition. But she defied those odds and successfully gave birth to four children! 

The miraculous 34-year-old Australian mother of four goes by the name of Lauren Cotter, and at just 16 years old, she was diagnosed with uterus didelphys, a rare condition which affects only 3,000 women across the globe.

According to Daily Mail, the condition occurs when the uterus fails to fuse properly during development in the womb. As a result, Cotter was born with two uteruses, two cervixes and yes, two vaginas!

Since her wombs and cervixes were half the size of an average woman’s, Cotter was told that carrying and giving birth to children would be an issue.

But the Melbourne-born primary school teacher and her 33-year-old husband, Ben, knew they wanted kids.

“From quite early, on Ben and I discussed having children and it was clear that he really wanted to be a dad. I knew I had to be open and honest and tell him that might not be a possibility for me.”

While the odds weren’t in their favour, the couple still underwent several successful pregnancies and ending up becoming parents to five-year-old Amelie, three-year-old Harvey, and adorable 15-month-old twins, Maya and Evie!

She reportedly carried all the girls in her right womb, while her only son, Harvey, grew in her left.

Cotter says she actually didn’t have any difficulty falling pregnant, telling the publication,

“Actually, we have found it easy to fall pregnant – I am not sure why, or if it has anything to do with my two vaginas.”

Nonetheless, she was told that miscarriages and stillbirths were still likely to occur given the size of her wombs. As she braced herself for the worst, Cotter and Ben were shocked to find themselves pregnant after just a month of trying for a baby!

“We decided to give it a go, and just see what would happen. We knew it might be a bumpy road and tried not to get our hopes up too much.

Just a month after we started trying, I bought a stack of pregnancy tests and started taking them weekly.

I couldn’t be sure, so I took a test each morning that week, and each day the line got darker and darker until I was sure – we were pregnant.”

Her first pregnancy went smoothly and baby Amelie came into the world via C-section. The couple soon tried for baby number two 18 months later, and Harvey was born!

Being a young mother of two, Cotter said she decided to have a contraceptive implant, as advised by her consultant.

The implant was supposedly 99% effective but Cotter again proved that she was an exception to the norm. Just three weeks after the contraceptive was fitted, she was pregnant again with twins! When asked whether the recent pregnancy surprised her, she said:

“Shocked doesn’t begin to cover it. During 17 years together, Ben and I had only ever got pregnant when we’d planned it. Now, here we were, having surprise twins.”

Maya and Evie were born just after 37 weeks and while they initially seemed healthy, drama began to unfold as Evie faced difficulties breathing and was sent to the ICU.

Soon, an X-ray of her lungs revealed that she had congenital diaphragmatic hernia, which happens when a baby is born with their intestines inside the chest cavity. As a five-day-old baby, she had to go through a keyhole surgery and doctors warned Cotter that there was a limited chance of survival.

Nonetheless, Evie, like her mother, defied the odds and fully recovered! The 15-month-old twins are now the centre of the family’s “crazy, hectic and amazing” life.

WOB



A 6-year-old boy recently made the news after he lodged a police report about his parents’ very violent argument that turned physical.

According to See Hua Daily, this incident occurred in Zhejiang, China, when the boy’s father went home drunk one night. He asked his wife to hand her phone to him so he could “check”, but she deliberately refused, resulting in an intense argument between the two of them.

The argument quickly escalated into a physical abuse when the drunk man began strangling his wife. WTF.

His wife did not back down as she picked up a hairdryer from the desk and hurled it at him. Their poor son witnessed the entire process without them realising (or caring for that matter), and he quickly ran out of his home to get help from the police. We assume that he ran to the nearest police station.

Yangyang, the boy, did so because he recalled that his kindergarten teacher told him to get help from the police whenever danger arises. He told the police,

“My dad started it (the physical attack) first. He was drunk when he asked to see my mum’s phone. But because mum didn’t want to, he hit her.”

The boy also mentioned that one of his parents bled from the fight, although the details weren’t reported.

The police officer then followed Yangyang home, and lo and behold, the couple was STILL FIGHTING. This means they weren’t even aware that their 6-year-old son ran away from home! The police gave the couple a stern warning, and they apologised to each other in the end.

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Police in eastern China have detained a woman after she allegedly beat her seven-year-old daughter to death over her table manners.

Public security officers in Zouping county, Shandong province, said the girl died in hospital at around 7pm on Saturday after being admitted with severe bruising.

The mother was detained on Sunday and an investigation was under way, police said.

According to the Qilu Evening News, the mother beat the child with an iron bar because she was annoyed by the way the girl was eating her lunch on Saturday.

The mother reportedly warned the girl that she would beat her if she continued to eat slowly and, after several warnings, asked her husband to leave the room.

“I did not dare to stop my wife. She also hit me when I tried to stop her from beating the child,” the father was quoted as saying.

He said that when he returned to the room, the girl’s body was covered in bruises and wounds. He tried to take her to hospital but the mother stopped him, the father reportedly said.

The child’s condition worsened and he eventually took her to hospital at about 5pm, the report said.

Despite emergency medical treatment, the girl died about two hours later.

Her funeral was held on Tuesday afternoon, news site Sohu reported.

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Almost every night for several years, Marlo Dean has helped her son to bed, then stayed awake listening for the machines that alert her when his breathing is off.

She then rises before dawn, helping young Dante’ Herrera get ready for a new day. Most of his hearing is gone and he struggles to speak or walk.

Family members sometimes tell Dean they don’t know how she does it.

Her response: Dante’ is the strongest fighter around. How could she not sacrifice everything to help her youngest son?

“Dante’ is the love of my life,” she says. “That’s my buddy, my best friend.”

Dean knew something was wrong with her son when he was an infant.

Though three older siblings walked before they turned one, Dante’ didn’t take his first steps until he was 18 months old.

He was rambunctious though. So much so that physicians first thought he might have attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).

It wasn’t until Dante’ was about two years old that a doctor mentioned a horrific possibility: That he might have a disease that affects his brain.

Years of inconclusive tests from different hospital systems followed.

Finally, when her son was six, Dean received a devastating phone call from Children’s Hospital of The King’s Daughters.

She was heartbroken. But both she and Dante’ found a new resolve.

For more than a decade, their mission has been to advocate for children everywhere like him who are fighting for their lives.

Teacher assistant Cindy Wheeler working with Batten disease patient Dante’ Herrera on a modified tricycle during an exercise teaching about different kinds of energy at Salem High School in Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States, on March 21, 2019. (Kristen Zies/The Virginian-Pilot/TNS)

Inspired to fight

It was in elementary (primary) school that Dante’ first needed a wheelchair, though he could still walk. Now, he can stand with assistance, but primarily uses the wheelchair.

When he was younger, it was difficult to understand him when he talked, his mother says. Now at 17, he can speak, but expresses himself largely through gestures.

Dante’ depends on about 20 pills a day, and he visits doctors at least once a week. That’s in addition to nurses who help his mother take care of him almost daily.

Sleep is often a struggle for Dante’. When he is in bed, a machine monitors his vital signs. When it beeps, Dean checks on her son. She sometimes needs to drive him to a hospital.

Through the highs and lows, faith has kept her strong. “I’m going to take care of him because God gave him to me,” she says.

Eleven years ago, Dante’ was diagnosed with Batten disease – a common name for a range of rare, inherited nervous system disorders.

According to the US National Institutes of Health, it stems from a genetic defect that triggers a cascade of problems.

The progressive illness affects an estimated two to four out of every 100,000 children in the United States. Common symptoms include loss of vision and motor skills, seizures, dementia and abnormal movements.

Many with the disease die in early childhood. Some may live into their teens or their 30s.

“Everything will slowly fail,” says Tracy Kirby, family liaison for the Batten Disease Support and Research Association.

This nonprofit organisation helps families deal with diagnoses and offers free admission into annual conferences, which serve as both pep rallies for emotional support and learning experiences.

It also connects them with needed equipment like wheelchairs.

People should treat children with the disease no differently than healthy youngsters because little ones who are ill recognise what’s going on around them, she says. “They know that you’re there,” she adds.

In addition to the regular symptoms, children may develop behaviour changes, learning difficulties, anxiety and trouble sleeping.

“I’ve spent many, many, many countless nights staying up watching over Dante’, unable to breathe or even get up and go to the bathroom without falling,” Dean says.

“It’s definitely an uphill battle.”

When Dean learned about her son’s disease, she decided she wasn’t going to let the crisis crush her or Dante’.

A short time later, she found out about an event in Washington about rare diseases. She didn’t have much time – the gathering was that week.

She didn’t have a hotel and hadn’t signed up, but decided to go. She set up a fundraising page, made a few T-shirts and took her son north.

“We were going to do something,” she says.

Dante’ and Dean met other families dealing with the disease. They came away feeling less alone. They were also inspired to educate people about rare illnesses.

PJ Caalim met Dante’ and his mother when they were all in Washington several years ago for advocacy work. Caalim has a son with a rare disease that causes the body to reject food.

Caalim saw Dante’ smile and couldn’t help but say hello. She quickly learned they lived near each other in Virginia Beach, Virginia.

Dean, 49, is a “Godly woman” who is always positive, Caalim says. That attitude and her determination do wonders when they’re raising awareness.

Dante’s positive attitude also helps, Caalim says. “It could be the worst day in the world and he’s still smiling,” she says.

Raising awareness

Dante’ doesn’t get a lot of youngsters seeking him out and asking to play. But he likes video games, making friends and watching television.

He enjoys a good laugh when he watches his favourite cartoons SpongeBob SquarePants and Tom and Jerry.

In April 2019, Dean took Dante’ on a wild outdoor animal safari in Georgia for his 17th birthday. He pointed excitedly as the exotic creatures poked their heads inside the family’s van.

When the group passed a camel, someone joked about it being hump day. Dante’ let out a bellowing laugh. “He’s a party animal,” Dean says.

Dante’ recently finished his sophomore (second) year at Salem High School where he took visual arts teacher Amanda Smith’s class.

He is like other teenagers in a lot of ways, she says.

Smith, who coaches softball, brought her junior varsity players to a March event at the school that was raising awareness for rare disabilities.

She wanted them to see what some of their peers endure on a day-to-day basis.

As the season ran through the spring, players did their part by wearing denim ribbons that Dean had given out on their equipment bags.

Such acts go a long way for anyone with a rare disease, Dean says. “When you see Dante’ in the halls, guys, say ‘Hi’ to him,” his mother said.

At that March event, Dante’ stood to meet political dignitaries. He also posed for photos. Even as he struggled to force himself upright, he beamed.

That spirit is the epitome of Dante’, Salem principal Matthew Delaney says.

“Dante’ proves to all of us that each day is not only a great day, but it’s a gift that should be treasured,” he says.

Dante’ used to be a patient of Virginia Governor Dr Ralph Northam, who began practising paediatric neurology at Children’s Hospital of The King’s Daughters.

Dr Northam has declared June as Batten disease awareness month in Virginia.

Tears swell in Dean’s eyes when she thinks about Dante’s future. He’ll miss out on many typical youthful joys. He’ll never drive a car. He may never find romantic love.

But Dante’ is determined, she says. He can still raise awareness for rare disabilities just by being himself. And he is going to do that as long as he can.

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