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According to China Press, the police received reports that someone wanted to jump off the roof of a 33-storey building, and they rushed to the scene around 10pm on November 10th. They tried to persuade the man to come down and keep him calm as he was very emotional.

Apparently, Wang was under huge emotional stress as his wife had just racked up a huge amount of debt during the Singles Day promotions. She had bought over 300,000 yuan (RM177,559) in designer handbags, expensive perfumes, clothes and many more online. 

He said that this was not the first time, as she had always been very fond of online shopping, but after she gave birth to their child last year, it got worse. During the Singles Day sales last year, she had spent over 200,000 yuan (RM118,374) and he had paid it off for her. She had promised that she would control her spending but had broken her promise and gone on a shopping spree again this year.

Wang says that he earns only a few thousand yuan a month, and he was the sole breadwinner of the family. His wife used to work in a property company but after she gave birth, she quit her job to take care of the baby. When he discovered that she had gone crazy on online shopping again, he was at his wits’ end and decided to kill himself as he did not know how to pay it off.

Luckily, the police managed to console Wang and persuaded him not to kill himself after half an hour. They brought him home and notified his family. His wife promised that she would not obsess over online shopping any more and vowed that she would not buy anything. Wang said that he would try to come up with the amount owed.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s Singles Day sales or not, you should control your finances well so you don’t end up in unnecessary debt!


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A man who stabbed his heavily pregnant wife is believed to be suffering from depression, revealed his close cousin

The 39-year-old suspect stabbed his pregnant wife four times – two times in the stomach – on Friday, 8 November.

The 37-week (or 8.5-month) pregnant victim then drove herself to the Putrajaya Hospital after the attack and safely delivered the baby through a C-section. Both the mother and child are reportedly in stable condition.

After learning of the incident, the suspect’s close cousin said the suspect is believed to be suffering from depression due to heavy workload

Only known as Din, New Straits Times reported him saying that the perpetrator – who works as an audio engineer – is believed to be suffering from depression over the past two to three months.

Din also attributed their grandmother’s passing four months ago to the suspect’s alleged depression.

“We have been close since we were children. After our grandmother’s death, he returned to Melaka and seemed to have a lot on his mind,”Din told Berita Harian.

“I asked him why he appeared burdened, he replied that he had a lot of work.

“I told him to come back and work in Melaka since his company has a branch there.

“He told me he had plans to do so after the wife had given birth.”

The 37-year-old cousin added that the suspect and the victim’s relationship seemed normal

“As far as I know, they had no problems with each other. Even the relationship between families from both sides was very close,” he said.

The suspect is currently being remanded until 15 November for investigation

He was arrested at his home in Precinct 9, Putrajaya, which was also where the attack took place.

Preliminary investigations showed that the suspect does not have any criminal records, reported Harian Metro.

The case is being investigated under Section 326 of the Penal Code, for voluntarily causing grievous hurt by dangerous weapons or means.

If convicted, the suspect could face imprisonment up to 20 years, a fine, or whipping.


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She heard a bamboo pole hitting the ground and thought nothing of it.

But when Madam Maimon Ayab, 86, peered out of the window of her first-storey flat, she was shocked to see an elderly man face-down in the carpark.

Madam Maimon, who got her 48-year-old grandson to call the police, told The New Paper yesterday: “It was scary. There was a bit of blood coming from his head.

“T-shirts and shorts that were on the bamboo pole were on the ground as well.”

A police spokesman said yesterday that they were alerted to a case of unnatural death at Block 26, Toa Payoh East, on Tuesday at 10.17am.

She said an 84-year-old man was found motionless at the foot of the block and was pronounced dead by paramedics at the scene.

While police investigations continue, Chinese-language newspaper Lianhe Wanbao reported yesterday that the man’s wife had suffered a heart attack after witnessing him fall and she later died in hospital.

A Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) spokesman told TNP that it had also responded to an incident at the same block at about 11.25am and a person was taken to Tan Tock Seng Hospital.

Residents of the block said the couple lived in a 10th storey unit.

Madam Mira Jamira, 66, who lives next door, said: “Several SCDF personnel went to their unit and brought the wife out on a stretcher. I don’t know if she fainted or had a heart attack, but I think she was unconscious.”

She said the couple had two daughters and a son, and the youngest, a daughter, whom Madam Mira believed to be about 30 years old, lived with them in their three-room flat.

When TNP visited the flat yesterday, no one answered the door.

Madam Mira said the couple were friendly and loving, and the husband was still active, cycling every morning for exercise.

“I’ve never heard them quarrel, or anything at all,” said Madam Mira, who has been living there for 29 years.

“They were very good neighbours. I’m sad about what happened to them.”


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When the cat’s away, the (unfaithful) mice will play.

This “lonely” husband who downloaded Tinder while his wife was out of town found himself in a bit of a prickly situation when he got a match on the app — his own wife.

Sharing his story on Reddit in the hopes that the internet could offer some guidance, the man said that he had met his wife on Tinder three years ago and that they had been “quite happily” married for 14 months.

He said, “A month ago she left on a business trip for a week and I found myself downloading Tinder on a particularly lonely night.”

His reason for downloading the dating app?

“I don’t even know why. I didn’t have any intentions. But I did it.”

Oh sure, that’s very convincing.

PSA to all the married men out there: There are other things to do to pass time. You don’t have to download dating apps. Watch some movies. Play some games. Eat some good grub. The possibilities are endless.

Anyway, back to our “bored” husband. After swiping around aimlessly, he deleted the app. Before long, another opportunity presented itself.

“On Monday my wife left for another business trip. Last night I once again downloaded Tinder and started swiping. Again, I had a laugh, but ultimately was bored of it.

“Then I saw her picture come up.”

He decided to “make a bold move” and swiped right on his wife. Surprisingly, they matched. This meant that his wife had swiped right on him first.

Why was she on Tinder? Was she really on a business trip? Why did she even swipe right on him? Filled with questions, the man decided that he was going to confront his wife when she returned.

Of course, this presented a dilemma — confronting her would also mean admitting that he was on Tinder.

The troubled husband turned to Reddit, asking, “What the h*** do I do?”

Unfortunately for him, netizens were unsympathetic. Commenters blasted him for downloading the app in the first place, expressing their doubts about his motives.

Photo: Screengrab/Reddit
Photo: Screengrab/Reddit

Some Redditors pointed out that both parties had no grounds to be upset with each other since they were both equally at fault for being on Tinder.

Photo: Screengrab/Reddit
Photo: Screengrab/Reddit

Others suggested that there may be more to the situation. In a twist worthy of a telenovela, some commenters speculated that perhaps the wife had found out that the husband was on Tinder and created her own profile to suss him out.

Photo: Screengrab/Reddit

Whatever the reality is, it seems like an awkward conversation is definitely in store for this couple.

One Reddit user summed up the situation best by saying: “You guys seem like a good match”.


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A wife in China has come up with a solution after being constantly frustrated with her husband’s late nights at work.

Her friend recently paid her a visit and discovered that the wife had installed a punch card machine… in their home.

With the punch card machine in place, the woman’s husband is expected to reach home by 9pm every night.And if he doesn’t? Time is literally money for him.

Kwong Wah reported that if the husband reaches home early in time for dinner, he will not have to wash the dishes. 

However, if he is about 30 minutes late, he will be fined 100 yuan (RM62). 

And if he crosses the 30-minute mark, he will have to do house chores for one day over the weekend. 

“If a punch card machine can manage my husband’s working hours in the office, then it should work just fine for his non-working hours,” the wife said, according to the report.

Her new system, however, has received mixed reactions from people

According to Kwong Wah, one person said, “It is like being deprived of freedom.”

While another commented, “Hey honey, maybe I should consider implementing this at our home too?”


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Astro Awani reported that an Indonesian man put up a Facebook post in which he said his wife was on sale for threesome services.

M. Amin Santoso (age 29) claimed that he had to do it because of his family’s financial problems. He has been married to his wife for 12 years.

“This is to pay for my two children’s schooling expenses,” said Amin when he was questioned by a reporter at the police headquarters in Surabaya on Monday (8th July).

Amin worked as a general labourer doing heavy lifting tasks, but the income from the job was not enough to sustain his family. His job only paid 50,000 Rupiah a day, which is equivalent to RM14.

He added that he usually receives financial aid but recently he did not get it.

Amin admitted that he was excited when he received an offer of 2,000,000 Rupiah (RM 586) in response to his Facebook post. His wife, who was also present at the police headquarters, confessed that she participated in his scheme because they were desperate for money.

Now, Amin faces legal action, while his wife has been released from custody.


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A pregnant woman survived being pushed off a 34m cliff in Thailand’s Pha Taem National Park.

The 32-year-old woman Wang Nan, from China’s Jiangsu province, received an unpleasant phone call from her mother-in-law.

This was after Wang’s husband was arrested after the police suspected him of having attempted to murder her.

“You are not dead, so why did you make a police report?” the mother-in-law was reported to have said.

Wang claimed that her mother-in-law wanted her to lie to the police in a bid to secure her 33-year-old son Yu Xiaodong’s release.

It was earlier reported that Yu lured his wife away to a secluded spot to look at cliff murals but pushed her off the edge on June 9.

Chief of the Khong Chiam police station Pol Col Chanchai Innara said Wang had tumbled off the cliff but her fall was broken by trees.

She suffered fractures but her three-month-old foetus survived.


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A Thai woman’s post on social media garnered attention when she exposed her abusive husband who hit her to the point of miscarriage.

According to China Press, the 36-year-old woman was working at a massage parlour, where she met her (now) husband, who’s younger than her by 10 years. She was happy to have found herself a partner and decided to leave her job to become a housewife.

But who knew the husband would be lazy and jobless? He made her go back to work with a pregnant belly!

He also demanded money from her the whole time, while he stayed at home doing nothing.

The wife saved an amount of money for the husband to set up his curry business. But his curry business failed, and her money went to waste. She didn’t want to lose her money anymore, so she refused to give him any, which resulted in arguments and he would beat her up.

In a recent fight, he requested money from her again, but because he didn’t get the amount he wanted, he beat her up.

This time, she felt an excruciating pain in her abdomen, and a lot of blood dripped onto the ground! A developing fetus was seen lying in the pool of blood.

Right after it happened, she decided that she had enough of the abuse. After taking photos of her wounds and the aborted fetus, she then left for the hospital.

It’s reported that she has two children, one with her ex-husband, and one with the current one. Both of the children are at her mother-in-law’s house. She hasn’t been able to see or contact them for days, and she’s anxious about her older child (a daughter of her ex-husband). It would be difficult for her to live in such a hostile environment.

Netizens commented that instead of posting this incident on social media, she should’ve reported to the police.

The police stated that they have seen her social media post but have yet to receive her report. They are trying to contact both the woman and her abusive husband.


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Imagine yourself sacrificing your youth and money, risking it all for the sake of your degree, only to be told by your husband that you should just stay at home.

As a wife, would you adhere to your husband’s wishes?

In this day and age, it’s pretty bewildering to know that there are still people who think that women belong to men. This is proven by a certain Twitter user who wants his future wife to stay at home and ‘be his slave’

He writes: “To my future wife, it’s great if you’re a doctor or engineer while we’re dating.”

“But once we get married, your career ends there. Hell no, I’m not having a wife who works.”

It didn’t stop there.

He continues: “I still want a girlfriend who has a degree, but once we marry each other I do not want her to work. If she wants to start an online business selling matte lipstick, it’s fine.”

He even went on to quote a ‘religious figure’ from Nur 2, a popular Malay drama.

“You are not only my wife but my slave. Follow your master’s instructions or burn in hell.”

Clearly nothing more than a person seeking attention, the tweet has undoubtedly backfired on many levels.

One netizen who was clearly unimpressed with the tweet slammed the original thread, stating that men are not superior to women.

He writes, “Fact: Men are afraid of women, period. Men are afraid of successful women. They think they are superior, the chosen one to lead.”

He also commented on the tweet mentioning that wives are slaves to their husbands.

“This is a toxic culture. Up to the point of labelling your wife as a slave? “Women are not slaves nor should they be treated like they are.”

The netizen also went on to show his support for the empowerment of women.

“I stand for women’s empowerment. I stand for independent women. I stand for the women who are mistreated by irresponsible men.

“I stand for women who have no problem leaving men behind for the sake of their career. I stand for women who have been left behind empty handed with children to feed by men.”

Well, he successfully pointed out that we do not live in the 1950s.

Women should not have to stay home and watch the children while men go to work. Today, women are equal men in many ways, and in some regards, more so.

Other replies started piling on. Another tweet laments the fact that such people even exist in the world.

“Yup! These small-minded boys are very irresponsible! They threaten to sabotage a woman’s career or business as long she is not better than them.”

Well said!

How would you have responded to this guy? Share your thoughts below.


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This is just devastating! 

The Star reported that a 41-year-old man just committed suicide inside a car at the Miri Hospital compound. The tragic incident took place on 23 April 2019 at around 10pm.

It was reported that the man took his own life by using “exhaust fumes from his own car to gas himself to death”. Miri police chief Asst Comm Lim Meng Seah said,

“The man took (a) video of himself inside the car as he was about to commit suicide and sent it to his wife. The police rushed to the scene after being alerted. It was the son who found the man inside the car.”

The police found that the car was locked from the inside. Therefore, they had to open the door using force. According to Asst Comm Lim, after the police’s investigation, they concluded that it was a suicide case as they found no foul play in the case.

At the time of writing, the police revealed that the body will still be sent for a post-mortem, so we should keep our eyes peeled for further information on this matter.

Hopefully, the police will quickly find a conclusion to this matter and we extend our deepest condolences to the man’s family and friends.

That said, you can always reach out to Befrienders KL if you’re going through a hard time and need some help to cope with it. You can also call them for emotional support at no charge at 603-79568145!


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